You have devoted your life to working hard, providing for the loved ones around you, and saving for your retirement years. Now as you approach your golden years, you have raised your family, you have built an estate that you are proud of, and you are deeply committed to your relationship with your significant other. You both are a happily unmarried couple, and you know that you want to spend the rest of your life with this person. With this said, is your retirement plan specifically tailored to your unmarried relationship with this individual?
Unmarried couples must realize that their retirement planning is a completely different animal compared that of married couples. As an unmarried couple, don’t let your retirement years discriminate against your wishes for you and your significant other. It’s important to plan your retirement together now with a financial advisor/ financial planner to uphold your security in the long run. Therefore, if you are in an unmarried long-term relationship, please consider the following elements when planning for these golden years with your partner:
Living Arrangements
When an unmarried couple initially moves in together, one of the partners may sell or rent his/her home. That partner might move into the other partner’s residence, or the couple might decide to buy an entirely new house together. Whatever the scenario might be, the couple might distribute living expenses depending on which partner qualifies for tax deductions.
Furthermore, if the couple did indeed buy a new home together, an expert might suggest that the couple purchases life insurance policies on each other to help pay off the mortgage in the unfortunate event that the other partner suddenly dies. Considerations must also be made about whose name will be on the bills and the how expenses will be shared. Also, additional considerations must be made regarding estate documents. For example, if a partner dies, will the surviving partner continue to live in that home until his/her own death, or will the deceased partner’s family members immediately inherit the home?
Joint and Individual Accounts
Many unmarried couples prefer to keep both individual accounts and a joint account. In regards to individual accounts, the couple can separate the assets/debts that each partner individually accumulated and incurred before “couplehood”. Many couples also open up a joint account primarily funded by both partner’s monthly social security benefits. This joint account can then be used to pay for expenses together, such as housing expenses, restaurants, vacations, etc.
IRA, Pension, and Retirement Assets
Unfortunately, the spousal advantages of retirement accounts and benefits can be nonexistent for an unmarried couple. These spousal advantages include advantages, such as the spousal rollover IRA option and the spousal pension continuation benefit election. An unmarried couple must also annually review beneficiary designations (such as IRAs, annuities, and life insurance) in order to uphold each partner’s exact wishes. Because of the contractual nature, beneficiary designations will always supersede heirs in other estate documents.
Separate Tax Returns
Complex consideration must be taken when an unmarried couple files separate tax returns. The couple has to determine which partner gets to deduct which expense. Because each partner’s individual contributions can vary, deductions vary as well. Thus, it’s best for an unmarried couple to seek the services of an accountant especially for tax returns.
Estate Planning
As an unmarried couple planning for your enjoyable retirement together, no partner wants to contemplate the possibility of an unexpected sickness, an accident, and even death; however, both partners must be strong and plan for the unexpected as well as the very end. For this reason, a will, power of attorney, living will, and healthcare directive is essential to have. For instance, an unmarried couple must carefully consider who will make final medical decisions if one partner in the relationship is unexpectedly gravely ill and on life support. Will the other partner or the children of the sick partner ultimately determine when to “pull the plug”?
As for estates, many unmarried couples choose to keep estates separate. Especially in these cases, financial advisors/ financial planners are needed to set up trust agreements, wills, and other estate documents.
The End Game
Compared to married couples, unmarried couples have a multitude of additional considerations to make when planning for their retirement together. The complexity of an unmarried couple’s retirement plan increases especially with the presence of ex-spouses, children, grandchildren, separate estates, etc. You and your significant other must navigate through this retirement planning process with the help of a trusted financial advisor/financial planner. Especially if you are an unmarried couple over the age of 60, you must request the financial, legal, and tax advice of experts in order to protect your happy retirement, your estate, and your wishes as a couple. So, don’t navigate these waters alone; seek the help of an expert today.
Merkel, Steve. “Relationships And Retirement Planning.” Investors Business Daily. 2 November 2012. <http://news.investors.com/investing-personal-finance/110212-631985-relationships-and-retirement-planning.htm>
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